In a world where digital nomads, slow travellers, and pet lovers collide, house sitting has become one of the most meaningful ways to experience a place. But with the privilege of staying in someone else’s home—and caring for their beloved pets—comes a responsibility that goes beyond free accommodation.
Whether you’re house sitting in a bustling city apartment or a quiet coastal cottage, being a great guest is more than good manners. It’s about respect, awareness, and leaving things better than you found them. Here’s how to make a lasting (positive) impression wherever your journey takes you.
1. Arrive Prepared, Stay Gracious
Before you even set foot in the home, do your homework. Read the house manual thoroughly, clarify any uncertainties, and confirm your arrival time in advance. If the homeowner is greeting you in person, a small thank-you (like a local snack or a handwritten note) goes a long way.
RHS Tip: Always pack a basic guest kit—your own toiletries, slippers, and perhaps a towel—so you don’t unintentionally dip into the homeowner’s personal items.
2. Tune into the Culture—Even Locally
Respect isn’t just about following pet routines or locking up. It’s also about being aware of local customs, noise expectations, and neighborhood norms. Whether you’re sitting in a coastal town or a multicultural suburb, taking the time to understand the area reflects well on you—and on the sitter community as a whole.
RHS Tip: Ask if there are any local quirks or rules to keep in mind—like bin day etiquette, parking zones, or nearby wildlife.
3. Prioritise Pet Happiness and Routine
At the heart of house sitting is pet care. Learn their routines, quirks, and comforts. Are they allowed on the couch? Do they need soft music when you leave? Little things matter.
RHS Tip: Send a quick daily update via WhatsApp or your preferred platform. Not just photos—owners love knowing their pets are happy, fed, and snoozing in the sunshine.
4. Leave It Better Than You Found It
When your sit wraps up, your goal is simple: the homeowner should return and feel immediately at ease. Strip the bed, wash and dry your sheets and towels, clean the fridge, and take out all rubbish. Bonus points if you leave a small welcome-home touch—flowers from the garden, a thank-you card, or fresh milk in the fridge.
RHS Tip: Take “before” photos on arrival to help you return everything to its place. It shows thoughtfulness and attention to detail.
5. Communicate Like a Pro
No one likes guessing games—especially when their pets and home are in someone else’s hands. Keep your messages upbeat, honest, and clear. If something goes wrong (it happens!), let them know promptly and calmly.
RHS Tip: Use a shared calendar for vet appointments, garbage days, or medication times. It keeps everyone on the same page and builds trust fast.
6. Embrace the Role of Temporary Caretaker
You’re not a hotel guest—you’re a trusted custodian. Treat their space with kindness, limit visitors, and be mindful of energy use (yes, that includes long hot showers and air con!). This mindset shift is what turns you from just another sitter into someone homeowners recommend.
RHS Tip: Keep a short daily checklist to tick off things like watering plants, checking mail, and refreshing water bowls.
Final Thoughts
House sitting is more than a budget-friendly way to travel—it’s a deeply personal exchange built on trust, care, and community. When you show up prepared, communicate clearly, and treat the home like your own (or better), you’re not just a traveller—you’re a responsible guest.
And that’s something worth being proud of.